Is this relationship worth it?

me and my boyfriend are going on 6 months together, and i have serious feelings for him, i even considered spending the rest of my life with him at one point. but as of lately he keeps telling me that i talk too much and that annoys him. it's gotten so serious that he isnt spending as much time with me as he used to. and i agree with him, i do talk too much, but i'm confused as of how to feel, is it fair for him to ask me to change for him.



i really love him, but i'm not happy around him lately. and i'm considering if things don't change breaking up. should i dump him, should i give him a ultimatum or should i be the man he wants me too.Is this relationship worth it?
there are upsets in all relationships



Breaking up is hard. I still 'love' my ex, and that feeling will probably never completely go away, but we could not live together. at the end, i felt like we did not have anything in common and we were both compromising on everything.



I think the test is that the good times should always outweigh the bad by a big percentage. a relationship is not about ALWAYS being in complete agreement - that would not work with 2 different human beings - but it should be about always being comfortable that anything can be sorted out.Is this relationship worth it?
He may be taking you for granted. He loved you even when you talked too much in the beginning. You may need to wake him up by leaving him, and if he doesn't change find someone else.



On a side note, people who talk too much are annoying . . . I am one and get on my own nerves!
I think the first option is your only option.

Don't change for him and ultimatums never work out right.

You deserve someone who loves the way you talk too much.
It's not so much a matter of how much you talk, but what you talk about. If you are analyzing the relationship to death, he has a valid point. Guys hate that--straight or gay! What (I think) he is getting at is he'd rather talk sports, movies, politics, whatever interests him and you, but not ';How is our relationship going, what did you mean when you said that, where will we be in ten years.'; It's annoying enough when girls talk that way! When a man does it, it's intolerable. Feel what you feel, but don't talk what you feel.
you are who you are never change for anyone but yourself :)
If you are not happy around him then something is wrong. he needs to take you the way you are or not at all. if you can not be yourself around him then you need to dump him and find someone you can feel comfortable around! GOOD LUCK

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