Heart says stay, Head says go?

5 yrs married, 2nd marriage for both of us. Been to counselors which didn't work.

Heart says

I feel attached to her, I feel I promised her, It hurts to think about telling her I don't want to be w/ her anymore. There are moments when she is the women I thought she was.



Head says

She is mad at me most of the time, Theres no affection or intimacy anymore, She's not going to change. Break it off before money becomes a big issue (Her daught is 16 %26amp; wants to go an expensive college), I have no more hope %26amp; I should get out before I hate her.



How do I move forward, I feel stuck.Heart says stay, Head says go?
sometimes its easier to go with what the heart says because you are hurting or you are worried about hurting someone else. from expierence i know first hand. i listened to my heart to and i kept on with a realtionship that i knew wasnt going to go anywhere but i continued and when it finally ended yes i was hurt but had relief all at the same time. so instead of dragging a bad situation out and delaying the hurt follow your head and get out before like you said you hate her. sometimes things just dont work.Heart says stay, Head says go?
Always go with the head.
You owe it to yourself to try to fall in love with her again. Try. Bring her handpicked field flowers, take her hand in yours. Open your heart. She can't be mad at you, when you are sincere.
Get out now, and your heart will forgive you, stay and you will loose your heart and your mind. Best of luck.
don't listen to alias. you should work through it. is it the fact that she is mad most the time that is making you not want to be with her anymore? do you let her know that this madness is really hurting you and your feelings for her? cuz you should! you need to be completely honest with each other in a marriage. stay in there pal. do whatever you can to save it. things will get better.
Why is she mad at you all the time? What broke in the relationship that led to this horrible bitterness? And if she won't change, have you tried to change? ASK HER WHY SHE'S MAD AT YOU ALL THE TIME? And then be man enough to accept the answer. If it can't be fixed, no sense in being miserable forever. But try one more time before you call it quits. It takes two people to make a relationship, and it takes two to destroy it.
Go with your heart. Maybe you need to show affection to recieve affection. Flowers, romantic dinners, weekends for 2, YOU cooking dinner, cleaning house. Let yourself fall in love all over again start dating your wife again. You can never go wrong if you follow your heart. Sit down and have a heart to heart conversation, not about the fighting or kid, just hold her hand and kiss her tell her how much you love her. GOODLUCK
Sit down and tell her how you feel being honest about things will make you feel better about yourself.You are so right its better to move on now then to wait until things get ugly.If you re unhappy and you have no hope left staying because your heart says so wont work,you deserve to be happy and if shes mad and shows you no affection whats left ? You have pretty much answered your own question so do what you have to do .I respect what you said and I admire you for your honesty .GOOD LUCK
You are trying to find your first wife in her and i think she also wants to see her first husband in you. However you have to accept her and try to be the man of his dreams. Remember the thing we got firstly in life we never forgot that. First love is always unforgotable. Same way first marriage is unforgotable. Give her so much love so that she can think of you and think of your house afterall hatred can be won only with love
Maybe you should just get away from each other for awhile and see what happens.Everyone need space at times. Maybe that's what she needs and you too.If you went to counselors I would guess you didn't apply what was being said. Communication is so important. You HAVE to talk to each other and not at each other.
Pray.

Give it to God.

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