How do you move on from unlucky love?

I have had a 4.5 year long relationship with my ex boyfriend, when we first met we were 18 he got so comfortable of me doing everything he would not do much himself, he partied with friends and when i asked him to be more responsible he just said soon he will do so later, as his laters went by, 4.5 years went by, when he decided to go on a trip to usa with his friends i met this guy who was 4 years older than me, he was so mature, he talked the right things and was responsible, i decided its time for change, broke up with my bf and went out with this guys.....everything was perfect we were the happiest people on the earth until his grandma felt sick and his visa had expired he moved back home...we decided to bring him back renew his documents etc, until i found out he went to his ex and they were back on. The worst thing is he did not tell me that, i have to find out out via mutual friends, and now he still says he loves me and he got back because his family wanted to bla bla complicated stuff....now my both ex boyfriends have a gf, I feel completely broken. I have gave my all into both relationships, i have been a great girlfriend, i literally made both of them better people. I am not even hurt on the guys, im just mad at life, i have gave in my best and been trying so hard to make a great life out of what i have, but life just throws me this jerks, why cant i find myself a decent love and live happily? Im on verge of crying when i think about this....it has been about 2 weeks since i found out my ex got back with his ex gf...i really wanna be normal again, i feel so lonely and weak. I dont really believe in love anymore, i feel like all men are assholes...please someone help me to get on track, i havent been single for 5 years and now i feel like a lost childHow do you move on from unlucky love?
it happens..

Just move on..

go shopping or something find someone interesting %26amp; you'll get over it !How do you move on from unlucky love?
awww its okay honey (hugggg) love sucks sometimes, doesnt' it? what helps me? hanging out with my friends, looking at pictures of fun times, and even sometimes running and exercise helps get out my frustration. go do something, and keep busy so that you can keep your mind off of that idiot who let you go.

I hope it help, and if you wanna talk more email me mytanaka@sbcglobal.net
Whoaa,

really long.



But delete him from your phone,

ignore him completely,

date other guys,

have a sad day where you eat icecream%26amp;%26amp;cry,

go shopping,

etc.



Not all guys are assholes.
My respects to you.



I have been heartbroken multiple times this past year, but you have it worse than I.



Know that there are many many guys out there who you have yet to discover. When you feel the time is right, start dating again. Understanding heartbreak, it will be a while until that happens. Have a good cry every so often to let it all out, treat yourself to something special, hang out with your closest friends and have a blast.



Sadness flies away on the wings of time.



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Anyone will tell you, breakups suck! It's a part of life. Dating isn't always easy...but you move on. Be glad you had a 4 1/2 year relationship. You grew up and now you have a world of possibilities to pursue. Your a good person and you will find someone else.

I am sorry that you heard from other friends about your ex new girlfriend. I made the mistake of not telling my ex last year that I had gotten married and that is something I should have told him personally. But we all make mistakes. Don't look at this as a point in your life where you feel there's no hope. There's someone out there for everyone.