Tuesday, September 13, 2011

What happend? (female opinion preferred)?

ok heres the story im in college and my female friend and i had a week before spring break where we watch a move in my or her room and stayed up late. by the end of that week we would sit all inner twined. this all started when she txted me all worried about her grandma on that sunday so i told her to come to my room and talk. we talked till 4 in the morning. the next night we hung out and so on. the one thing that stays in my mind is how much in common me really are but yet we have different personalities. well about half way through the week romantic feelings for her and she then txt asking me if i did and at first i said no but then she drug it out of me then when i asked her she said idk but when we hung out her eyes told it all. well now spring break is over we are obviously still talking but we dont hang and the one time she asked me to come over to her room i couldnt and when i ask her she basicaly says no and i feel like im runing out of time cuz shes not coming back to my school next year. did the spring break change things? am i just not being patient?What happend? (female opinion preferred)?
I think that you were her friend when she needed one and maybe that's all she wanted. I am not saying that she feels this way, but from your story it sounds like it.



All I can suggest is that you keep trying. If you like this girl then go after her. Not stalker stuff by no means, but still you have to try in order to find out if there could be more between you.



Having things in common is a good thing, but can also mean that you are in the friend zone as she may want someone who she feels she can be different from. I'm sorry if that doesn't make sense. It did in my head, so I typed it.



I think if you wait you may loose her, but who knows in ten years when she's happily married to some other guy you can finally tell her that you liked her in college and feel bad that you never had the guts to go after what you wanted.



Good luck.What happend? (female opinion preferred)?
ACTUALLY I THINK SINCE U GUYS WONT BE N THE SAME SCHOOL NEXT YEAR ITS NOT REALLY RUSHING BUT DONT MOVE TOO SLOW OR TOO FAST.. TIME WILL TELL YOU EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW. THEREFORE I SUGGEST THAT YOU BE HONEST AND UPFRONT WITH HER AND JUST TELL HER HOW U FEEL. WHEN YOU THINK THE TIME IS RIGHT ASK HER OUT FOR LUNCH ONE DAY BOTH OF YOU ARENT VERY BUSY. WISH YOU THE BEST!

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