Tuesday, September 13, 2011

How do you heal a broken heart?

serious question, please answer.

i have been dating this guy, we talked about getting married and starting a family but everything changed. he broke up with me and doesn't want anything to do with me. now I'm heartbroken. every time i think of him, i fall apart. I'm getting depressed.. i don't know how to move forward without him in my life. please help.. thanks for your time.How do you heal a broken heart?
Okay, I can help because i've been there. At this moment, you can cry, you can be upset, you can even be depressed if you want, simply because you are grieving. You have to understand though, at one point you have to stop feeling this way. You have to pick yourself up and live your life again just like you were before this guy came to your life. You don't want him to see you feeling miserable and running after him. It's not going to be easy, but I believe you can do it. All you have to do is be optimistic about life. A break up happens for a reason (he was not the one for you). Look at it this way, someone who is better is out there waiting for you. One thing I guarantee that will help you get through this tough feeling is time. I trully believe that time heals all wounds. Surround yourself with loved ones, do things that you love, and stay positive, everything will be alright. Keep your chin up. :-)How do you heal a broken heart?
You are dealing with a date, some people deal with a marriage, sometimes its a long marriage and cheating of their spouses. You can just delete this man from your memory and move forward with your life. Do the things that you love to do and enjoy it. Try to enroll in a course or program and you will be busy. You will meet someone nicer and be really happy. Just think that this 'guy' doesn't deserve you and you deserve someone better. Its better off without him.
im not sure if this is going to work, but:

try to think of the bad times u had w/him, so it will give u a good reason why not to be w/him. u can always find someone else to replace him with too. or try a dating service:

http://www.eharmony.com/singles/servlet/user/pprofile/share

and if that didn't help, sorry. and im in a depression right now so i can't really think straight

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