Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Do people's personalities change after a break-up?

My ex dumped me and I chased after him begging him to take me back. I feel embarrassed and ashamed of my behaviour. I'm a weak person, overly emotional and I don't stand up for myself. I want to change into someone who's strong and puts themselves first, like how he did. I don't like who I am.

Is there any hope that I'll change?

xxDo people's personalities change after a break-up?
Yeah of course there is. Hopefully you will have learned from this experience, or in your next relationship you will learn again. I have layed on the pavement, crying, begging someone to take me back before. I told myself I would never lower myself that much again. When my next boyfriend split up with me, he did a bit of begging to get me back, and then it was all confusing and when he didn't want me, I wanted him. I sent a couple of begging text messages saying I couldn't live without him and all that rubbish but then I thought he doesn't want me I aren't lowering myself or letting myself get into the state that I did before. So although in a sense I didnt change in the relationship (I let them treat me like a princess, but I was still moody and awful with them) I changed in the way that I coped with the break up. Being emotional is not a bad thing. You will change and learn without even realising that you have. Good luck honey :-) x x xDo people's personalities change after a break-up?
I think to some degree everyone would say, They changed after a Break Up w/ someone they had deep feelings for. However, I must say, Despite what the situation is, or what you did, Your first responsibility must be to yourself. You state you are a weak person and overly emotional. These two things are not necessarily a bad thing, yet People will take advantage of your Kind Personality. It is essential for you to learn to look out for Yourself FIRST. If this guy wants out, Let him go...Act as if it doesn't bother you at all, ( Although on the inside it might), Play your Poker Face.

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