I think she is cheating on me!!?

Okay, I have been seeing this girl for about 7 months now.. we just moved in about 2 weeks ago and its not what I expected!



There have been so many red flags but I chose not to pay attention. I have suspected that she has been cheating on me but I can't prove it. Now I have someone real close to her telling me that she has in the past.



We talked about it and she just cried and denied everything. I didn't expect her to say yes. I kept telling her just tell me the truth and we can start over!! I told her this 5-6 times that night. So of course I just told her we would forget what I heard and be done with it. But I am really not done with it. I will find out. I keep t thinking to my self why would someone do that. I am doing so many things for her. She has 2 wonderful boys and I also have 2 boys from my ex wife. She has been living with her mom for the past 5 years and this is her 1st house. her boys have there own room and they love it there. I love them so much, but I am catching myself trying to be distant to them because I don't think we are going to be together much longer. I cant imagine her risking this for some other guy. I take care of her in so many ways. I don't feel the love from her. We talked about that as well but nothing really changes. Breaking up with her is the easy way but I love her so much and want to try and make it work. I Know I can't make someone love me but there has to be something I can do to show her, this is how it is take it or leave it?I think she is cheating on me!!?
Once a cheater, always a cheater. She WILL cheat on you again. Heck, she's probably cheating on you right now. Women are crafty when it comes to cheating. They use every tool available. E-mail, text messages, cell phone with the ringer off. Heck, I wouldn't put it past her if she sends her kids to hand-deliver love notes to her mystery man.



You should just cut the strings now and be done with her. If she really loved you, would she have cheated on you in the first place? What kind of example is this setting for your boys? Would you approve if they ended up dating someone who would rip their heart out in the same fashion this wench is doing to you? It may be painful now, but you will be better off in the long run without this liar. Get rid of her now!