Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Come on... someone answer my question about possible love. Throw me a bone here. Does he like me?

Does he like me? I really need advice here...?

Ok, so I teach at a performing arts studio/school. I also attend classes there as a student. I started noticing a guy staring at me a WHOLE lot when I would be in dance class. I noticed that he would go out of his way to look at me. He is also a performer and musician at the school.



I started taking note of when he looked at me in the school. I also noticed that when he would get close to me, just through proximity, he would get incredibly nervous. He would get fidgety and seemed to be blushing.



I got so touched by how nervous he was, so I decided to take the opportunity to make things easier on him and I found him on face book through a mutual performer friend. He seemed so happy that I found him. He is always quick and prompt to respond to my face book emails with lengthy information about himself as well as commenting on everything I would talk about.



So we met up one time to exchange performing arts flyers for each other to pass out to people that we each knew, to help eachother's businesses out and that is how I got his phone number. He seems to be putting off a very welcoming energy towards me and now whenever he sees me, I think he is finally comfortable enough to approach me, and he does. He just seems so nervous and I don't know what to do to help him understand that he can chill out with me and if nothing else, just hang out and get to know me.



I tend to be the main one that approaches him, because he seems to want to approach me, but at times seems paralyzed by his own nervousness. He seems relieved when I approach him.



Also, I am going through a life changing break up right now (me and my ex are past the stage of mourning the relationship, and are now in good friend stage), and this performing arts friend of mine seems to be very empathetic and compassionate to my situation.



Since I am mainly the one who approaches him, or texts, or emails him, I am starting to wonder if he really likes me of if maybe he is just a really nice guy. Any advice?



Extra info:

I am a Cancer

He is a Taurus

I am African American

He is European American

I am older than him and I have children (in midst of divorce)

He has met my kid and their dad and doesn't seem to mind





** I am not looking to enter into another serious relationship at the moment, but it would sure be nice to have a friend who might like me and might be a great possibility for a relationship in the future**Come on... someone answer my question about possible love. Throw me a bone here. Does he like me?
i still don't quite get what being a ';peformer'; at the school means. does that mean he's a teacher?



maybe he's hesitant because he feels bad about approaching a married woman (even though ur going through a divorce) and when you approach him he knows that he didn't commit any transgression by talking to you since if he would talk to you he would most likely be doing it because he likes you and wants to be with you. once the divorce is finailized it might be easier for him.



also, sometimes it's hard to think of things to say. even though he way want to very seriously talk to you, he doesn't know where to begin. when you start talking to him, it's easier to talk because you came up with the subject and it's therefore probably easier to keep the conversation going and end the converstation normally instead of awkwardly like he might think he'd end it.Come on... someone answer my question about possible love. Throw me a bone here. Does he like me?
Hey there :) It definitely sounds like he likes you romatically! It also sounds like he likes it when you approach him, text him, etc. because it takes all the guess work out of it for him. It sounds like he is more shy, whereas you are more outgoing. He knows what he wants (you) and you contacting him lets him know where you're at. Also, he is letting you know that he is into you by being open and welcoming when you do contact or apprach him.



It does sound like there's a great possibility for a future relationship, good luck!!

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