I dont know anymore, can you recapture your ex's friendship?

Ok so my saga continues:



Saw ex with girl, I was totally ignored, as if I was nobody to him. After being married for 4 yrs, even though we're not exactly on good terms why are men so difficult?



I've gotten on with parts of my life, and I'm happy but I still want a friendship. He was the reason I left my friends and family and moved overseas, then he cheated and so forth. He now lives with his mam, we hardly see each other, he has messed me around but inside I just want peace.



How can you be friends with your ex and not bring up the bad stuff?

Will his hostility be worse after court?

Is there ever a chance things can change?



Broken and sadI dont know anymore, can you recapture your ex's friendship?
He cheated on you after you left everyone for him. Why, oh why, would you want to be friends with this guy?



Move on with your life. He obviously has.I dont know anymore, can you recapture your ex's friendship?
He's someone you should not pursue a friendship with. What does he reallly have to offer you?
If you don't have kids then you shouldn't need to be friends with him. Maybe that is why he is cold because he feels you don't want to be ';just friends';.
It sounds like it will all depend on how much he is willing to have a 'friendship'.
Why in the world do you want to remain friends with this guy if you want peace then move on count your self lucky ,of course it's hard to let go but you have to if you ever want that peace and joy back and why would you want to remain friends with him any way he cheated on you and ruined your marriage why is he angry at you he the one who cheated so it seems misplaced to me let him go honey
men and women cannot just be freinds , with out one of them wanting tofuck the other one,and if you have already bumped uglys youll never just be freinds cuz ytoull always see her naked when shes talking....lol
Hun, he doesn't deserve your friendship. I know its hard to let go but he's a jerk. Let him go. In order to find peace with him write him a letter or say what you have to say then move on completely and let him go. As for the girl he's with ...... what makes her so special that he won't cheat on her too. Once cheater always a cheater.



So be nice to yourself and rise above this a walk away. His ';friendship'; is not needed.



I know this is very hard for you. And I truely do feel for you. But Get up and walk away. Good luck.
Hi I want to give you an answer that is emotionally helpful equivalent equal to the happy cure that everyone wants from this potentially terrible bad recession even a depression.



As you know and have smartly said ;I've gotten on with parts of my life, and I'm happy but I still want a friendship.

I understand how you feel.

He was the reason I left my friends and family and moved overseas, then he cheated and so forth. He now lives with his mam, we hardly see each other, he has messed me around but inside I just want peace.

Question you say he now lives with his mam?

or did you mean Mom? or man?

Either way you are hurt rightfully so but your looking for the impossible to happen.

How can you be friends with your ex and not bring up the bad stuff?

I would think how can you be friends with your ex and not think of the truth that happened?

Will his hostility be worse after court? It won't be better not unless your Ex sees that is what you want and that will be an act on their part to make you happy but it won't be true just what you wish it to be they will give you and you will be setting yourself up for a bigger fall and more dissapointment pain and hurt.

Is there ever a chance things can change?



I hate to tell you but the'res a better chance we will never have war again anywhere. How i wish things could be different but i have tried to

do everything to make bad situations better only to find things were even worse than i could believe in the actions and beliefs that plagged me hurtfully for years.

Take the pain now and get on with your life it's part of maturing and moving on and taking control of your life. Don't let someone have a hold on you especially after they have done you dirty,It will be worse in the future.

((Broken and sad now is better than carrying it along endlessly)). When you let the other person lead you down the path to ruin.

'We now have almost impossible economic trouble and debt job loss and worldwide problems that have occured From the U.S.A. around the world. And there is no easy way out. Sometimes you just have to go through more pain first before you can start anew.

Then you have a good chance of cure and at happiness.