I used to listen to this song long ago, I remember half the lyrics but not the singer or the song title. It was a woman and her guitar that's all I remember. The lyrics went:
Hello my friend, I know its been a while, ain't it funny how things change, broken promises and faded memories, of a life lived in vain. I reach out for the innocence, that I lost some time ago, I can't stop the rain from falling, some times life is so unfair.Pleas help me find this song I can't find it anywhere?
i looked for like 15 min, and could not find it, i will keep looking for uPleas help me find this song I can't find it anywhere?
its
etreme scrotum by wonder nutz
Monday, November 22, 2010
How do you move on from unlucky love?
I have had a 4.5 year long relationship with my ex boyfriend, when we first met we were 18 he got so comfortable of me doing everything he would not do much himself, he partied with friends and when i asked him to be more responsible he just said soon he will do so later, as his laters went by, 4.5 years went by, when he decided to go on a trip to usa with his friends i met this guy who was 4 years older than me, he was so mature, he talked the right things and was responsible, i decided its time for change, broke up with my bf and went out with this guys.....everything was perfect we were the happiest people on the earth until his grandma felt sick and his visa had expired he moved back home...we decided to bring him back renew his documents etc, until i found out he went to his ex and they were back on. The worst thing is he did not tell me that, i have to find out out via mutual friends, and now he still says he loves me and he got back because his family wanted to bla bla complicated stuff....now my both ex boyfriends have a gf, I feel completely broken. I have gave my all into both relationships, i have been a great girlfriend, i literally made both of them better people. I am not even hurt on the guys, im just mad at life, i have gave in my best and been trying so hard to make a great life out of what i have, but life just throws me this jerks, why cant i find myself a decent love and live happily? Im on verge of crying when i think about this....it has been about 2 weeks since i found out my ex got back with his ex gf...i really wanna be normal again, i feel so lonely and weak. I dont really believe in love anymore, i feel like all men are assholes...please someone help me to get on track, i havent been single for 5 years and now i feel like a lost childHow do you move on from unlucky love?
it happens..
Just move on..
go shopping or something find someone interesting %26amp; you'll get over it !How do you move on from unlucky love?
awww its okay honey (hugggg) love sucks sometimes, doesnt' it? what helps me? hanging out with my friends, looking at pictures of fun times, and even sometimes running and exercise helps get out my frustration. go do something, and keep busy so that you can keep your mind off of that idiot who let you go.
I hope it help, and if you wanna talk more email me mytanaka@sbcglobal.net
Whoaa,
really long.
But delete him from your phone,
ignore him completely,
date other guys,
have a sad day where you eat icecream%26amp;%26amp;cry,
go shopping,
etc.
Not all guys are assholes.
My respects to you.
I have been heartbroken multiple times this past year, but you have it worse than I.
Know that there are many many guys out there who you have yet to discover. When you feel the time is right, start dating again. Understanding heartbreak, it will be a while until that happens. Have a good cry every so often to let it all out, treat yourself to something special, hang out with your closest friends and have a blast.
Sadness flies away on the wings of time.
Someone help?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?
Anyone will tell you, breakups suck! It's a part of life. Dating isn't always easy...but you move on. Be glad you had a 4 1/2 year relationship. You grew up and now you have a world of possibilities to pursue. Your a good person and you will find someone else.
I am sorry that you heard from other friends about your ex new girlfriend. I made the mistake of not telling my ex last year that I had gotten married and that is something I should have told him personally. But we all make mistakes. Don't look at this as a point in your life where you feel there's no hope. There's someone out there for everyone.
it happens..
Just move on..
go shopping or something find someone interesting %26amp; you'll get over it !How do you move on from unlucky love?
awww its okay honey (hugggg) love sucks sometimes, doesnt' it? what helps me? hanging out with my friends, looking at pictures of fun times, and even sometimes running and exercise helps get out my frustration. go do something, and keep busy so that you can keep your mind off of that idiot who let you go.
I hope it help, and if you wanna talk more email me mytanaka@sbcglobal.net
Whoaa,
really long.
But delete him from your phone,
ignore him completely,
date other guys,
have a sad day where you eat icecream%26amp;%26amp;cry,
go shopping,
etc.
Not all guys are assholes.
My respects to you.
I have been heartbroken multiple times this past year, but you have it worse than I.
Know that there are many many guys out there who you have yet to discover. When you feel the time is right, start dating again. Understanding heartbreak, it will be a while until that happens. Have a good cry every so often to let it all out, treat yourself to something special, hang out with your closest friends and have a blast.
Sadness flies away on the wings of time.
Someone help?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?
Anyone will tell you, breakups suck! It's a part of life. Dating isn't always easy...but you move on. Be glad you had a 4 1/2 year relationship. You grew up and now you have a world of possibilities to pursue. Your a good person and you will find someone else.
I am sorry that you heard from other friends about your ex new girlfriend. I made the mistake of not telling my ex last year that I had gotten married and that is something I should have told him personally. But we all make mistakes. Don't look at this as a point in your life where you feel there's no hope. There's someone out there for everyone.
Is this relationship worth it?
me and my boyfriend are going on 6 months together, and i have serious feelings for him, i even considered spending the rest of my life with him at one point. but as of lately he keeps telling me that i talk too much and that annoys him. it's gotten so serious that he isnt spending as much time with me as he used to. and i agree with him, i do talk too much, but i'm confused as of how to feel, is it fair for him to ask me to change for him.
i really love him, but i'm not happy around him lately. and i'm considering if things don't change breaking up. should i dump him, should i give him a ultimatum or should i be the man he wants me too.Is this relationship worth it?
there are upsets in all relationships
Breaking up is hard. I still 'love' my ex, and that feeling will probably never completely go away, but we could not live together. at the end, i felt like we did not have anything in common and we were both compromising on everything.
I think the test is that the good times should always outweigh the bad by a big percentage. a relationship is not about ALWAYS being in complete agreement - that would not work with 2 different human beings - but it should be about always being comfortable that anything can be sorted out.Is this relationship worth it?
He may be taking you for granted. He loved you even when you talked too much in the beginning. You may need to wake him up by leaving him, and if he doesn't change find someone else.
On a side note, people who talk too much are annoying . . . I am one and get on my own nerves!
I think the first option is your only option.
Don't change for him and ultimatums never work out right.
You deserve someone who loves the way you talk too much.
It's not so much a matter of how much you talk, but what you talk about. If you are analyzing the relationship to death, he has a valid point. Guys hate that--straight or gay! What (I think) he is getting at is he'd rather talk sports, movies, politics, whatever interests him and you, but not ';How is our relationship going, what did you mean when you said that, where will we be in ten years.'; It's annoying enough when girls talk that way! When a man does it, it's intolerable. Feel what you feel, but don't talk what you feel.
you are who you are never change for anyone but yourself :)
If you are not happy around him then something is wrong. he needs to take you the way you are or not at all. if you can not be yourself around him then you need to dump him and find someone you can feel comfortable around! GOOD LUCKweb design company pets
i really love him, but i'm not happy around him lately. and i'm considering if things don't change breaking up. should i dump him, should i give him a ultimatum or should i be the man he wants me too.Is this relationship worth it?
there are upsets in all relationships
Breaking up is hard. I still 'love' my ex, and that feeling will probably never completely go away, but we could not live together. at the end, i felt like we did not have anything in common and we were both compromising on everything.
I think the test is that the good times should always outweigh the bad by a big percentage. a relationship is not about ALWAYS being in complete agreement - that would not work with 2 different human beings - but it should be about always being comfortable that anything can be sorted out.Is this relationship worth it?
He may be taking you for granted. He loved you even when you talked too much in the beginning. You may need to wake him up by leaving him, and if he doesn't change find someone else.
On a side note, people who talk too much are annoying . . . I am one and get on my own nerves!
I think the first option is your only option.
Don't change for him and ultimatums never work out right.
You deserve someone who loves the way you talk too much.
It's not so much a matter of how much you talk, but what you talk about. If you are analyzing the relationship to death, he has a valid point. Guys hate that--straight or gay! What (I think) he is getting at is he'd rather talk sports, movies, politics, whatever interests him and you, but not ';How is our relationship going, what did you mean when you said that, where will we be in ten years.'; It's annoying enough when girls talk that way! When a man does it, it's intolerable. Feel what you feel, but don't talk what you feel.
you are who you are never change for anyone but yourself :)
If you are not happy around him then something is wrong. he needs to take you the way you are or not at all. if you can not be yourself around him then you need to dump him and find someone you can feel comfortable around! GOOD LUCK
This is third time I am going to ask about an elected legitimate British National Party Polices?
First it represents all white British Citizens weather you like it or not .Second the response which I got was about jobs .There is a pratice in conducting trade which is called(Off shoring) yep those discounts you get from food/clothes it is because of cheap labour since you have strong trade unions for long job security ,C.E.Os will dodge wage increase bargaining and conduct Business elsewhere (less regulation environment).
Now this is my question ,very simple and straight forward assuming the B.N.P has come to power how do you hope to change for starters you are against non-white Immigration since there nothing like British Immigrants when the Brits stay in other Countries but ''EXPATS''
Apart from Immigration B.N.P what other things are you going to change break it down in points please and Thanks in advance.
P.S After all there is nothing to be ashamed of if you are BNP member ;-).This is third time I am going to ask about an elected legitimate British National Party Polices?
They don't represent me and I'm white British. They're like our version of the taliban, they want to bring back the birch for petty criminals. My milk was stolen from my doorstep a few weeks ago, I wouldn't live peacefully in a country where the perpetrator of that would be beaten with a stick by some paid pervert.This is third time I am going to ask about an elected legitimate British National Party Polices?
Balls
Perhaps nobody is answering because you are being a complete jackass.
Vote BNP - BNP all the way.
You can find the full range of BNP policies on their site.
http://bnp.org.uk/
Their most important policy (other than immigration,) is the one on benefits. If we had full employment, the tax bill would be drastically less. Cheap goods aren't cheap is you have to pay millions of people not to work just so employers can keep their wage bills low by employing immigrants.
You are asking Americans...we don't care. Get pon the British Y/A. And with all the writing, no one read it. I know I didn't.
the bnp wouldn't do much if they by some act of 'god' got into power. Their policies are like the ramblings of a 14 year old boy, badly spelt and unworkable. Many are discriminative even to 'ethnic british' like allowing certian people to carry guns but not others, some are undemocratic like refusing certian people the vote. Anyway if the bnp ever got into power they would destroy us, and every british person has a duty to defend this land against the pathetic BNP scumbags that threaten our very own British existance.
The main objectives of the B,N.P are to protects the people of the uk first of all the bnp is not essetially racist as it is made out in the press the press is a munipitalive organisation which stirs up hatred
it aims to protect the rights of the workers ie british jobs for british workers the term british buy the way does not single out race black or white chinese turkish or polish if you own a british passport you have priority over jobs they want to stop non passport holders taking british jobs
also it wishes to repeal any laws that benefit the criminal in this country such as the use of the human rights law which many criminals use as an aid to get a lesser sentence as the crown prosecution usually drops these cases it happens frequently
removal from the eu and its policies becuase it provides no benefit to us due to our local authorities
cutting foriegn aid so we can boot pulic spending on schooling and healthcare
better and similar rights and pay for men women and all races
re introduction of coperal punishment as a detterent to offenders and show the justice system is on the side of the citizen and capital punishment for pedophilles and murderers
re introduce conscription into the army for all individuals for 2 years to tech discapline and reduce crime (muggings of pensioners)(National service)
mandatory jail terms for offences against pulic servants (assaults against nhs workers, doctor, police)
protection of the disabled and homosexual
bringing back freedom of speech
rebuild british defences
encourage organic farming
help first time house buyers and young familys
the bnp is not racist they are just depicted that way by the media the bnp for Uk paliament
Go to the British national party site and read for yourself.
Lets start with this then, BNP, NOT IN MY NAME! never has been and never will be whether you like it of not.
Next I am not against non white immigration if it is closely monitored and regultated so again BNP, NOT IN MY NAME!
Lastly your 'question' does not make any sense so you may wish to re-write it in a legible way.
This question is too incoherent to understand. It rambles on and on and I cannot see what you are getting at except to proselytise for the BNP.
If you could rephrase it?
This question is totally irrelevant as the bnp are, and always will be completely unelectable. It`s like asking about Bishop Rock putting a man on the moon.
Now this is my question ,very simple and straight forward assuming the B.N.P has come to power how do you hope to change for starters you are against non-white Immigration since there nothing like British Immigrants when the Brits stay in other Countries but ''EXPATS''
Apart from Immigration B.N.P what other things are you going to change break it down in points please and Thanks in advance.
P.S After all there is nothing to be ashamed of if you are BNP member ;-).This is third time I am going to ask about an elected legitimate British National Party Polices?
They don't represent me and I'm white British. They're like our version of the taliban, they want to bring back the birch for petty criminals. My milk was stolen from my doorstep a few weeks ago, I wouldn't live peacefully in a country where the perpetrator of that would be beaten with a stick by some paid pervert.This is third time I am going to ask about an elected legitimate British National Party Polices?
Balls
Perhaps nobody is answering because you are being a complete jackass.
Vote BNP - BNP all the way.
You can find the full range of BNP policies on their site.
http://bnp.org.uk/
Their most important policy (other than immigration,) is the one on benefits. If we had full employment, the tax bill would be drastically less. Cheap goods aren't cheap is you have to pay millions of people not to work just so employers can keep their wage bills low by employing immigrants.
You are asking Americans...we don't care. Get pon the British Y/A. And with all the writing, no one read it. I know I didn't.
the bnp wouldn't do much if they by some act of 'god' got into power. Their policies are like the ramblings of a 14 year old boy, badly spelt and unworkable. Many are discriminative even to 'ethnic british' like allowing certian people to carry guns but not others, some are undemocratic like refusing certian people the vote. Anyway if the bnp ever got into power they would destroy us, and every british person has a duty to defend this land against the pathetic BNP scumbags that threaten our very own British existance.
The main objectives of the B,N.P are to protects the people of the uk first of all the bnp is not essetially racist as it is made out in the press the press is a munipitalive organisation which stirs up hatred
it aims to protect the rights of the workers ie british jobs for british workers the term british buy the way does not single out race black or white chinese turkish or polish if you own a british passport you have priority over jobs they want to stop non passport holders taking british jobs
also it wishes to repeal any laws that benefit the criminal in this country such as the use of the human rights law which many criminals use as an aid to get a lesser sentence as the crown prosecution usually drops these cases it happens frequently
removal from the eu and its policies becuase it provides no benefit to us due to our local authorities
cutting foriegn aid so we can boot pulic spending on schooling and healthcare
better and similar rights and pay for men women and all races
re introduction of coperal punishment as a detterent to offenders and show the justice system is on the side of the citizen and capital punishment for pedophilles and murderers
re introduce conscription into the army for all individuals for 2 years to tech discapline and reduce crime (muggings of pensioners)(National service)
mandatory jail terms for offences against pulic servants (assaults against nhs workers, doctor, police)
protection of the disabled and homosexual
bringing back freedom of speech
rebuild british defences
encourage organic farming
help first time house buyers and young familys
the bnp is not racist they are just depicted that way by the media the bnp for Uk paliament
Go to the British national party site and read for yourself.
Lets start with this then, BNP, NOT IN MY NAME! never has been and never will be whether you like it of not.
Next I am not against non white immigration if it is closely monitored and regultated so again BNP, NOT IN MY NAME!
Lastly your 'question' does not make any sense so you may wish to re-write it in a legible way.
This question is too incoherent to understand. It rambles on and on and I cannot see what you are getting at except to proselytise for the BNP.
If you could rephrase it?
This question is totally irrelevant as the bnp are, and always will be completely unelectable. It`s like asking about Bishop Rock putting a man on the moon.
Plz help me...heartbroken?
i don't know what to think!!!
my ex change so much...
we were together for 1yr...we were really close!
then she begun to change...broke my heart!!!
she dumped me....i was feeling s o bad!!!
she went out with another guy...then came back when she heard that i was going abroad!beg me to let her see me...
we eventually got together again...but was in a long distance relationship...but 2 weeks after she says she couldn't cope with it!
and said mean things to me...like she hates how i am...
now just 2 mnths after..she already has a new bf!!!
i'm so hurt
how can someone change so much!!!
Plz help me...heartbroken?
Move on dude. And never ever let someone bring you down if you truly believe that you deserve so much more.Plz help me...heartbroken?
because shes a bit*h.
theres nothing you really can do.. but move on..
two months is a good time see it took her two months to get over you..
now its ur turn to get over her..
good luck(:
Don't let it get you down. The best thing you could do is let her be and ask, Can you really see yourself with this person. Let your heart tell you because it never lies. Good luck and feel better, everything will be okay.
the other answers are correct however each person is different what works for me may not work for you. you have to work things out for yourself and one other thing dont be afraid to listen to your heart even if you dont like what it says. sorry this is so long. good luck.
Theres nothing you can do in this situation. Sometimes people change so you can learn to let go. you just have to be thankful for the good memories you had with her, but you got to learn to let go of what you both could have been. I know it hurts, but your going to be just fine, in time you will heal, keep telling yourself that. Because it might not seem like things will get better, but they always do.
my ex change so much...
we were together for 1yr...we were really close!
then she begun to change...broke my heart!!!
she dumped me....i was feeling s o bad!!!
she went out with another guy...then came back when she heard that i was going abroad!beg me to let her see me...
we eventually got together again...but was in a long distance relationship...but 2 weeks after she says she couldn't cope with it!
and said mean things to me...like she hates how i am...
now just 2 mnths after..she already has a new bf!!!
i'm so hurt
how can someone change so much!!!
Plz help me...heartbroken?
Move on dude. And never ever let someone bring you down if you truly believe that you deserve so much more.Plz help me...heartbroken?
because shes a bit*h.
theres nothing you really can do.. but move on..
two months is a good time see it took her two months to get over you..
now its ur turn to get over her..
good luck(:
Don't let it get you down. The best thing you could do is let her be and ask, Can you really see yourself with this person. Let your heart tell you because it never lies. Good luck and feel better, everything will be okay.
the other answers are correct however each person is different what works for me may not work for you. you have to work things out for yourself and one other thing dont be afraid to listen to your heart even if you dont like what it says. sorry this is so long. good luck.
Theres nothing you can do in this situation. Sometimes people change so you can learn to let go. you just have to be thankful for the good memories you had with her, but you got to learn to let go of what you both could have been. I know it hurts, but your going to be just fine, in time you will heal, keep telling yourself that. Because it might not seem like things will get better, but they always do.
Learning to listen to my husband?
My husband and I have been together for 13 years...and over the years we have grown apart. We have been arguing more and more and last night we hashed things out. He let me know I don't know who he is and he doesn't think I want to know either. I do want to get to know him again...but I forgot how to listen. My husband let me know that all I do is tell him what I think, how I see things and how I want them...he is right.
I've been living with my parents while I am in school and he is in Afghanistan. When he gets back..we will still be apart as I live in California for school and he is stationed in NY. He doesn't want me moving up there with him because he should be leaving to another base again soon...and he doesn't want me quiting school or having to repeat classes because the school I transfer to doesn't take all my classes. Watching my parents...I realized my bad habits are from them.
In saying all this...how do I change myself and learn to listen. I know it'll be hard with both of us so far apart...but I need to learn how to change and ways to do it, accomplish it and make it a permanent change. Breaking old habits can be hard...and this is why I am looking for advice and help to make this change so I can save my marriage and my relationship to my husband.Learning to listen to my husband?
While i agree with you i am also skeptical because of previous questions you posted about your husbands behavior. It kinda seems he is using his ';I have changed'; excuse to make his talking to the ex-girlfriend ok with you, and that's not cool at all. He still needs to stop all contact and all email,myspace,ect..if he wants to save his marriage. But it kinda seems like he's already out-to-lunch so to speak.As far as changing yourself, that's how counseling helps. the counselor acts as a mediator to help you guys see your faults in arguments and things you can do to change how you think,feel,and act. You guys need to get into counseling if possible. But hearing your situation that doesn't seem possible. I suggest you stay with your folks til you finish school and focus on you. If he really loves you then he will still be there when your finished. If he's not then you will still have your family,your degree, and your piece of mind. He seems a bit controlling and manipulative to have already convinced you it's your fault for not understanding him, yes people grow and change in a marriage but that does not excuse his poor behavior and disrespect to you.Learning to listen to my husband?
Looks like a manipulation case. Consider the fact you do know what he told you, hence you do listen.
Looks like he is just putting you down about your defects, he is not perfect either. Definitely he is not perfect, doesn't he have anything on where he can work?, if you are the only one interested on changing in order for him being better, then you are starting to submiss way too much. You should have something on pointing him where he can be better
to listen is easy, but to understand is something else.cj you know what you have been through and i know it hurts you. you are a very smart women. don't let your heart over rule your mind. listen with your heart and the understanding will come.but don't be blind and not look at what is real. you are my friend and i will always be here for you.
get out of the house... and get a place of your own...... then worry about putting the other pieces of your life back together.... one at a time.
talk to your pastor... ask what are some things that you can do to become a better listener.
Good girl . Im happy to see that another woman can finally see the light . That's all you need im sure things will work themselves out from now on
Take this to Dr. Phil.
Self help books will probably serve you better then a few paragraphs of advice here. Realizing a short coming and wanting to improve yourself in that area is the biggest step. So you tell your husband what you think, how you see things and how you want them..... why is that a problem? Does that make you self centered or merely having a dominant personality? Learning to listen to someone, seeing their point of view can be trying, especially if it varies dramatically from your own, but it's like a coin, two sided, and has merit..... maybe not so much to you, but if its coming from someone you love, try your best to accommodate them. It goes a long way in keeping the peace, and may gain you insight or another perspective on things. Good luck.
Easier said than done, but in marriage, we're supposed to put the other person first. Considering the limited amount of time you actually have together, I'm not sure what you argue about, but I would encourage you to make that time be about your husband. It's likely that his time in Afghanistan has changed him, so he's probably right about you no longer understanding him. You said you want to get to know him again, so you need to act like it. You do this by asking him questions about his day, his life and trying to focus more on him.
If you want to make this work, you need to make him feel like he's your biggest priority. It's how our partners make us feel that makes all the difference.
I hope this helps.
Not only do you have to listen, you have to truly see him and appreciate him for the man he is. He has to feel you truly are sincere. Men don't have any outlet for intimacy other than sex. That being said, your role with him is more important than you may realize. If you really get into his mind and understand the pressures men really experience as men, you will want to listen and it will come naturally. I think men are wonderful interesting creatures and I love to listen to them. There are many books out there to help you as well.
I've been living with my parents while I am in school and he is in Afghanistan. When he gets back..we will still be apart as I live in California for school and he is stationed in NY. He doesn't want me moving up there with him because he should be leaving to another base again soon...and he doesn't want me quiting school or having to repeat classes because the school I transfer to doesn't take all my classes. Watching my parents...I realized my bad habits are from them.
In saying all this...how do I change myself and learn to listen. I know it'll be hard with both of us so far apart...but I need to learn how to change and ways to do it, accomplish it and make it a permanent change. Breaking old habits can be hard...and this is why I am looking for advice and help to make this change so I can save my marriage and my relationship to my husband.Learning to listen to my husband?
While i agree with you i am also skeptical because of previous questions you posted about your husbands behavior. It kinda seems he is using his ';I have changed'; excuse to make his talking to the ex-girlfriend ok with you, and that's not cool at all. He still needs to stop all contact and all email,myspace,ect..if he wants to save his marriage. But it kinda seems like he's already out-to-lunch so to speak.As far as changing yourself, that's how counseling helps. the counselor acts as a mediator to help you guys see your faults in arguments and things you can do to change how you think,feel,and act. You guys need to get into counseling if possible. But hearing your situation that doesn't seem possible. I suggest you stay with your folks til you finish school and focus on you. If he really loves you then he will still be there when your finished. If he's not then you will still have your family,your degree, and your piece of mind. He seems a bit controlling and manipulative to have already convinced you it's your fault for not understanding him, yes people grow and change in a marriage but that does not excuse his poor behavior and disrespect to you.Learning to listen to my husband?
Looks like a manipulation case. Consider the fact you do know what he told you, hence you do listen.
Looks like he is just putting you down about your defects, he is not perfect either. Definitely he is not perfect, doesn't he have anything on where he can work?, if you are the only one interested on changing in order for him being better, then you are starting to submiss way too much. You should have something on pointing him where he can be better
to listen is easy, but to understand is something else.cj you know what you have been through and i know it hurts you. you are a very smart women. don't let your heart over rule your mind. listen with your heart and the understanding will come.but don't be blind and not look at what is real. you are my friend and i will always be here for you.
get out of the house... and get a place of your own...... then worry about putting the other pieces of your life back together.... one at a time.
talk to your pastor... ask what are some things that you can do to become a better listener.
Good girl . Im happy to see that another woman can finally see the light . That's all you need im sure things will work themselves out from now on
Take this to Dr. Phil.
Self help books will probably serve you better then a few paragraphs of advice here. Realizing a short coming and wanting to improve yourself in that area is the biggest step. So you tell your husband what you think, how you see things and how you want them..... why is that a problem? Does that make you self centered or merely having a dominant personality? Learning to listen to someone, seeing their point of view can be trying, especially if it varies dramatically from your own, but it's like a coin, two sided, and has merit..... maybe not so much to you, but if its coming from someone you love, try your best to accommodate them. It goes a long way in keeping the peace, and may gain you insight or another perspective on things. Good luck.
Easier said than done, but in marriage, we're supposed to put the other person first. Considering the limited amount of time you actually have together, I'm not sure what you argue about, but I would encourage you to make that time be about your husband. It's likely that his time in Afghanistan has changed him, so he's probably right about you no longer understanding him. You said you want to get to know him again, so you need to act like it. You do this by asking him questions about his day, his life and trying to focus more on him.
If you want to make this work, you need to make him feel like he's your biggest priority. It's how our partners make us feel that makes all the difference.
I hope this helps.
Not only do you have to listen, you have to truly see him and appreciate him for the man he is. He has to feel you truly are sincere. Men don't have any outlet for intimacy other than sex. That being said, your role with him is more important than you may realize. If you really get into his mind and understand the pressures men really experience as men, you will want to listen and it will come naturally. I think men are wonderful interesting creatures and I love to listen to them. There are many books out there to help you as well.
QUESTION NO. 1?????????????
1. In John 8:17-18: ';It is written in your (?) law that the testimony of two men is true. I am one, that bears witness of myself; and the Father that sent me bears witness of me.';
But the Law says no one can bear witness to himself or against himself! Two reliable witnesses beside himself are required. How could Jesus bear witness of Himself %26amp; proceeded as if it were lawful?
Did Jesus try to change/break the Law at this point?QUESTION NO. 1?????????????
Show me your scripture which says no man may bear witness of himself.
This is in reference to those who are to be put to death.
Deuteronomy 17:6
On the testimony of two or three witnesses a man shall be put to death, but no one shall be put to death on the testimony of only one witness.
This is in reference to committing a crime:
Deuteronomy 19:15
One witness is not enough to convict a man accused of any crime or offense he may have committed. A matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.
So where is your scripture?
Don't just give me a thumbs down, show your scripture.
Especially with this in mind:
Joshua 24:22
Then Joshua said, ';You are witnesses against yourselves that you have chosen to serve the LORD.'; ';Yes, we are witnesses,'; they replied.
Joshua 24:27
';See!'; he said to all the people. ';This stone will be a witness against us. It has heard all the words the LORD has said to us. It will be a witness against you if you are untrue to your God.';QUESTION NO. 1?????????????
Verse 16 reads am not alone the one who sent me is with me!
In your law? Daniel shows a great example of this, as two accusers are shown to be liars and they are Priests.
God's laws are not the only laws as men added to them, Jesus keeps all his Father's laws. Not mens.
But again this is a veiled reference to the Trinity.
Jesus did in such cases as I say there are laws from God and laws from men.
Example On Divorce! Moses gave a rite of dismissal
Jesus said I tell you Moses gave that because of your hard heartedness but it was not like this from the beginning. here you see Jesus say that law is against what God wanted and planned, so yes Jesus wanted laws changed in this sense.
trinitarianism is heathenism. YAHOSHUA is kind of making a joke, in a serious way. The law does not forbid an individuals testimony in His behalf, it seems to forbid forcing one to incriminate oneself, (like the fifth amendment, as in --'taking the fifth'
The Pharisees saw that Jesus was invalid because He had no witnesses that came to His defense. Jesus said that His witness was God, and that He and God were the two witnesses, which was the required law in that time-to validate a claim.
Those weren't Gods laws but the laws of men.
If your questioning the authenticity of Jesus I can tell you as one witness He is real! I know Him and you can know Him also.
Wise men still seek Him!
The Trinity - 3 persons in one.
btw there are no contradictions in the bible, and Jesus came to fulfil the law.
no, at that point JC was demonstrating thae he was law and he came to fulfill it....
Jesus disobeyed many laws. Funny how people think he was God if he broke his own laws.
But the Law says no one can bear witness to himself or against himself! Two reliable witnesses beside himself are required. How could Jesus bear witness of Himself %26amp; proceeded as if it were lawful?
Did Jesus try to change/break the Law at this point?QUESTION NO. 1?????????????
Show me your scripture which says no man may bear witness of himself.
This is in reference to those who are to be put to death.
Deuteronomy 17:6
On the testimony of two or three witnesses a man shall be put to death, but no one shall be put to death on the testimony of only one witness.
This is in reference to committing a crime:
Deuteronomy 19:15
One witness is not enough to convict a man accused of any crime or offense he may have committed. A matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.
So where is your scripture?
Don't just give me a thumbs down, show your scripture.
Especially with this in mind:
Joshua 24:22
Then Joshua said, ';You are witnesses against yourselves that you have chosen to serve the LORD.'; ';Yes, we are witnesses,'; they replied.
Joshua 24:27
';See!'; he said to all the people. ';This stone will be a witness against us. It has heard all the words the LORD has said to us. It will be a witness against you if you are untrue to your God.';QUESTION NO. 1?????????????
Verse 16 reads am not alone the one who sent me is with me!
In your law? Daniel shows a great example of this, as two accusers are shown to be liars and they are Priests.
God's laws are not the only laws as men added to them, Jesus keeps all his Father's laws. Not mens.
But again this is a veiled reference to the Trinity.
Jesus did in such cases as I say there are laws from God and laws from men.
Example On Divorce! Moses gave a rite of dismissal
Jesus said I tell you Moses gave that because of your hard heartedness but it was not like this from the beginning. here you see Jesus say that law is against what God wanted and planned, so yes Jesus wanted laws changed in this sense.
trinitarianism is heathenism. YAHOSHUA is kind of making a joke, in a serious way. The law does not forbid an individuals testimony in His behalf, it seems to forbid forcing one to incriminate oneself, (like the fifth amendment, as in --'taking the fifth'
The Pharisees saw that Jesus was invalid because He had no witnesses that came to His defense. Jesus said that His witness was God, and that He and God were the two witnesses, which was the required law in that time-to validate a claim.
Those weren't Gods laws but the laws of men.
If your questioning the authenticity of Jesus I can tell you as one witness He is real! I know Him and you can know Him also.
Wise men still seek Him!
The Trinity - 3 persons in one.
btw there are no contradictions in the bible, and Jesus came to fulfil the law.
no, at that point JC was demonstrating thae he was law and he came to fulfill it....
Jesus disobeyed many laws. Funny how people think he was God if he broke his own laws.
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